Surrounded by the constant push to seek self-gratification through material goods and excessive personal care, it can be a challenge not to fall prey to selfishness. But we are blessed to have powerful words from the saints to help guide us away from the inclination to selfish desires and direct our intentions towards the service of others! The following words to overcome selfishness are a beautiful reminder that we are called to surrender ourselves to God and His will. 

“Be loyal, generous. We form part of a single body, the mystical body of Christ, the holy Church, to which are called those who seek the whole truth. Consequently, we are strictly obliged to manifest to others the quality and depth of the love of Christ. A Christian cannot be selfish. If he were, he would betray his vocation.”
– St. Josemaria Escriva

“In a soul that belongs to itself and is attached to its own will, there can never be solid virtue.”
– St. Teresa of Avila

“Teach us to give and not to count the cost.”
– St. Ignatius of Loyola

“One secret act of self-denial, one sacrifice of inclination to duty, is worth all the mere good thoughts, warm feelings, passionate prayers in which idle people indulge themselves.”
– St. John Henry Newman

“By the constant practice of repeated self-denial in little things, with God’s grace, you will increase in strength and manliness of character.”
– St. Josemaria Escriva

We hope these words encourage you to serve your family and friends better with a heart directed towards God!